Relationships mistakes are often unavoidable. There are certain things that you won’t know about in advance, and you find out too late. But there are a lot of relationship mistakes you can avoid if you make a conscious effort. He is our list to help you avoid these relationship mistakes instead of making them.

1. Do not look to far ahead. Stop writing a romance novel in your head. Deal with the reality, and stick with the facts and only the fact of what you know, not what you assume. Don’t look at future promises as things you are being given today. Sure, you got the promise they will spend more time with you, or end their other relationship, or be more affectionate. But until they do, you have NOTHING.  Just a promise that has not been fulfilled. Until it is, it is worthless. Use your time in the early stages to see things for what they are, are honestly ask yourself if this person is organically compatible with you in the most important ways. If they are too much work, then perhaps they are not the right one for you.

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