Why do you think so many traditionally successful men have failed relationships or problems connecting with women?

Men, biologically, are programmed to be hunters and providers. Our self worth (incorrectly) often rests on what we make, what we have, the value we bring.

This puts many men on a path of chasing external validation and accomplishments. A good job, a big house, whatever it may be.

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