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Developing healthy eating habits in a child is no easy feat for parents. It is an achievement finding any food item your child actually enjoys, and will happily consume without putting up a fight.

That said, does that make it okay to use these foods as a ploy to get children to exhibit good behavior in other ways? "Bribery implies 'IF you do this, then I will do that,' ” Raising a Healthy, Happy Eater: A Parent’s Handbook co-author Melanie Potock tells PEOPLE. "Kids get a lot of power by 'not doing it' and they quickly learn that if they hold out on the parent’s request, they might even get something bigger and better in return!"

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