You're not quite sure how—or when—it happened. You used to have great sex, but suddenly your it just isn't what it used to be. By 11 p.m. you're more interested in The Daily Show than in a steamy session with your partner (or yourself!). Even when you do work up the energy, sex feels so...predictable. The excitement, even the passion, are MIA. (You're not the only one. See: I Tried a 30-Day Sex Challenge to Revive My Marriage's Boring Sex Life)

The thing is, you like sex—a lot. And you love your partner. So what gives? "There are all kinds of emotional barriers to having good sex, from poor body image to boredom," says sex therapist Laura Berman, Ph.D., director of the Berman Center in Chicago and author of The Passion Prescription. "The good news is that you can get beyond them and reconnect with your sensuality."

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